I was recently having a conversation with a friend regarding relationships. When I was 14 or 15, I would happily jump on Tinder to look for dates. Now that I am 31, I have realized that this is not the best way to find a date.
I tend to agree with him. When I am going out to a bar to pick up women, I seem to get lost in the shuffle in terms of picking up women. I can walk up to a girl, talk to her for 30 seconds, and then she is gone.
I have also noticed that girls would rather go home with a guy bought for them by their brother than with the guy that they may have been looking for in the bar. It’s quite frustrating at times. However, I do believe that if you take the online dating game seriously, you will be able to find a better match and make a better connection with women. I have tried out the apps Happn and Tinder, and I have noticed some differences. I have also noticed some differences between adult women and men.